
Im NOT a girly person, and im also not a hairdresser.....
(so interested to see what hairdressers think here)...
I have very very curly, dry hair. Its frizzy its knotty, i have terribly split ends, i have bleached it, dyed it and generally abused it, but... (oh and ive also found that a vast number of hairdressers like to turn me into a an afro/poodle).
Things i have worked out...
1/ Dont use shampoo unless you HAVE to. Use it if you are using other products on your hair every day, yes but use the mildest shampoo you can find (when i was using gel and hairspray i used baby shampoo, a sensitive skin one).
Shampoo strips all the dirt out of your hair - but along with it, it will strip out all teh natural oils that your hair needs. And then of course you must replace those by using conditioner.
2/I use conditioner every time i wash my hair, (not pantene YUCK), and i NEVER brush my hair dry, i brush it through wtih conditioner on ti, with my fingers first, then a wide toothed detangling comb.
Then i rinse with cold water - like Ella says , as cold as you can stand it.
If you have got dry hair that doestn get uber greasy particularly quickly (mines curly so you wouldnt notice if it did, but last time i had it straightened it was over a WEEK ebfore it looked even vaguely dirty), then water and some conditioner is all you need to get out dirt, unless you are using lots of hair products.
With that regime, i dont NEED any silicone type sprays on my vicious, attacks people in the street, loopy crazy curly hair at all. Just no brushing, water, conditioner and leaving it to dry naturally (usually whilst im asleep).
Easy peasey!
I do get my frend to trim it for me though, she WAS a hairdresser and im too mean to pay!
Em