> I've heard horror stories of them just left to fend for themselves while the vets and nurses concentrate on the bitch, which as I said is quite right!
Depends very much on the practise. Last year when I had to take one of my girls in, due to inertia, I wouldn't stay in the waiting room, and insisited on being in the room next to the operating theatre.
My last words, as the vet nurse disappeared behind the vet was "please take care of my girl, I can cope with losing the pups."
The vet nurse said "I don't intend on losing any puppies!"
They really do try their damndest, and are as pleased as us when both mum and pups are fine. I think that you will find your vet taking care of the bitch, and it's the nurses job to ensure whelps are fine.
They let me into the theatre after, and showed me 5 pups all sharing the same oxygen mask, they were so tiny. They all thrived - I think this is the more usual experience in todays veterinary world. Most vets and their nurses really pull the stops out and fight for both mum and babes. Fingers crossed for you. Good Luck.