> I know hes young and weve only had him a few days but we wondered whether we were just doing something wrong. We want to try and stop this asap. He is fine when we are there, although we havent crated him other than at night when we are home. But as soon as he is left alone its the problem.
No you aren't doing anything wrong - and setting your alarm at night to put him out before he cries is good, just remember that you want to set your times to his though and not the other way around. If you 'train' him to pee every 2 hours it's quite difficult to move on from that so you'll find you will be adjusting times for a few months yet!! Also some pups learn very quickly not to mess in their crates, others don't really care. Choose an easy to clean bedding material and expect some accidents. Once your pup gets into a rhythm of feeding you'll soon learn how long it takes between input and output so you can manage it better.
If you know there are times when you want your pup to go in the crate during the day it's a good idea to practise all through the day too, just pop the dog in at regular times - whether you need to or not. Even 10 minutes here or there makes a difference. There are people with a lot of experience and some good suggestions on here and you will probably find using all of them will de-sensitise your dog but here are a few others you might try.
- If you go out; never say goodbye to your dog and do not say hello or greet until you've been home a little while - your dog shouldn't be able to tell the difference between you at home in another room or out of the house. Also gives you time to unpack shopping etc without a bouncing dog!
- Pop your dog in the crate and leave thru the front door, walk straight round and come in the back - all the time ignoring. If he is still barking just wait in the room til he pauses then let him out - still ignoring. Repeat as many times as necessary over a week or two
- If the crate is in a room where you regularly do activities such as loading the washing machine - pop him in when you're sorting the laundry and let him out again when you've finished
- If you have special treats that you like to give, or chew activities, let him do some of these whilst in the crate then take the toy away when he comes out, he'll soon learn that the crate is his 'camp'. We trained our pup to always eat his bigger treats, pigs ears etc in his crate so that we could be sure our other dog wouldn't steal them - he still carries any trophy off to bed!
The howling when left is very common too - no puppy enjoys being excluded so if you and your husband are normally around a lot during the day try and get the pup used to some alone time by using the crate and by shutting doors behind you. They soon learn that a closed door is normal and that you
will be back. Good luck