
What you have to remember is that health problems do need to be taken in context. Some are quite rare and good breeders try their best to avoid them, and bad/casual breeders only avoid them by dumb luck.
Sadly the Vast majority of pups are bred casually for commercial gain or out and out puppy farmed. A smaller proportion of dedicated breeders act as custodians of their breeders and these strive to only produce the best they can with the current knowledge and science available.
Any breed that is fashionalbel will be prone to exploitation and both temperametn and health will suffer with the poorly bred ones. Both the first two named breeds come into that category. That isn't to say they do not have health issues as both are nto exactly of a natural canien conformation, with various typical features that can pre dispose to problems. Wrinkles can equal skin problems, and interference with breathing and deep set eyes and heavy facial features to eye issues.
As to the ideal family dog I think you will find most people will think their breed of choice the ideal family companion, I know I certainly do and have foudn that to be the case, but this is because my dogs have been brought up to my ways and have excellent temperametns, because I went to a reputable breeder who had such dogs. In fact heres had little or no dealings with kids yet coped with my pre schooler and toddler without batting an eye lid.
Remember one mans meat is another mans poison. For example none of the three breeds you mention would suit me.
So go through the relevent breed clubs to check the breeder is reputable.