Any one know of good web sites with advice or pictures to show an owner i know with puppy cocker

The Cocker Spaniel Club produces a trimming booklet which covers hand stripping. There's also a video/DVD available produced by AMP - make sure you get the one presented by Jacky Marris-Bray (there is another one aimed at pro-groomers which doesn't cover hand stripping). If you do a Google search on AMP grooming videos, quite a few sites come up to order from.