Hi Goldmali
Thanks for your reply, and the links. They were really useful particularly the FAB one, I had googled for info but I got so much conflicting stuff that I didn't know what to trust! It's comforting to know that my other two cats are not particularly at any extra risk after Leo's illness.
I had heard that PM is the only way to confirm diagnosis, and we were thinking it might be a good idea, but he died when we weren't expecting it, and then we ended up on the phone to the vet just as he was pretty much dying in front of us, and they were so unhelpful (me, all tearful & in a state: "Oh dear I think maybe we are too late, his breathing seems to be slowing, maybe we won't bring him in, or give it a few mins as I think he's near the end" and the vet: "well leave it and ring back in a few minutes if you want" me: "ok what's the number" Vet: "No you will have to go through the main switchboard again and leave your number and they will page me and I will call you", sigh) that we decided not to get a PM. I regret this now in some ways as it is driving me mad not knowing what he actually died of. And now we are wondering if we should change vets, but that's a different story :rolleyes:
One other thing I heard is that pedigree cats may be a bit more likely to get FIP, so that's a bit scary (as both my others are pedigrees - one a Birman as well - not related to Leo though). Are certain breeds more susceptible I wonder.
It seems like FIP it quite rare, thankfully.
I am so pleased to hear that your other cats didn't get FIP, must have been awful having the 'Christmas Cracker' (v apt :-) ) tell you they were doomed

Was the cat you lost a pedigree?
I will pm you about the cat mailing list, thanks :-)
Cheers
Alex