I dislike the name 'Dancing with dogs'. It's not really dancing. The recognised name is Heelwork to Music, or Freestyle, which I find gives a much better description of what it's all about. The 'sport' started off as music being put on in the background while heelwork was being demonstrated. It's now moved on so that the music is interpreted so that the heelwork looks more effective, and the handlers do sometimes dress up and make fools of themselves if they so desire. Not the dog though, the dogs aren't allowed to wear anything other than a collar. Yes freestyle includes various other moves as well, but chosen with the dog's physical structure and willingness in mind.
Some inspiration for the OP's daughter:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4d-2ZJZWvBQIn this video I love the attention, enthusiasm, and happiness that the dogs are oozing. The move where the dogs on their back legs with their front paws on the children's back is perhaps not a personal favourite of mine, but hey, the dogs are choosing it over running off and sniffing in the bushes so I guess they don't mind!
Likewise I don't always like the look of the move where the dog turns around and reverses back through the handler's legs, as when collies especially do this the way they put their ears back to try and tell where their handler is makes them look submissive. The little Sheltie in the video above however looks happy doing it.
I think it's wrong for people who show conformation dogs to take a moral high ground as though their discipline is flawless. Ideally yes showing you dog is like a check-over at the vets, but often that's isn't the case with hairspray, black eye-liner, over-weight dogs, and face-judging all occurring. It all depends on the individual person how they treat their own dogs, I would never tar all the dog showers with same brush. Likewise, in Heelwork to Music there will be people who train the moves to their dogs with more physical manipulation than I like to see, but they are the minority. HTM when shown on the telly does tend to be patronising to the dog and owner, as the general public just love laughing at us crazy dog people apparently. It is
not a fair representation. Just like when dog showing is shown on telly it portrays the most extreme personalities, quite unfairly. In general, the people who do HTM are the people who are very dedicated to their dog's welfare, and put a lot of time into bonding and training their dogs with the best, kind techniques in order to attain such precision in their routines, with dogs that look happy doing what they do.
I have only competed at one Heelwork to Music show so far, in Anglesey last year. Our routine involved 2 minutes 30 seconds in the ring on each of the two days. The rest of the time my dog was being exercised walking around the fields at the venue, meeting and greeting lots of doggy friends, lying in the shade with us on the grass to eat lunch, and then a long walk along the dog-friendly beaches afterwards playing in the sea. The audience while we were 'performing' was perhaps 15 strong at best. Yes, they applauded at the end, showing their appreciating for the 'entertainment'. I'm inclined to believe however, that what they enjoyed seeing was a Westie that had actually had some training done with it (unlike most Westies you see!), and seeing his very feathery un-carrot-like tail wagging all the way through. They appreciated the time and effort that had been put into the training, very different from the sort of entertainment at a circus. No props, no costume, no treats or toys, no lead, no physical manipulation. Just me, my dog, doing 2.5 minutes worth of exercises strung together with music playing in the background, and a huge reward at the end. Harmless.