
an e-cheque should show as an uncleared payment, you would see it in your paypal account. Basically if you cant see a payment then the money isnt there, make sure this person is legit, I had someone swear blind they had paid the money to my paypal account and that it had left their account, it turned out they had actually hacked into someone elses ebay account and were trying to use their paypal - be very careful.