
Hi Sheila,
I think Digger's advice is excellent and a method myself and several on the forum whole heartedly agree with ;) Yes, everyone has differing methods and varying degrees of experience in employing same but I know I speak for many regular posters on the forum when I say you're not alone in the
"I train them with kindness" department - kind, consistent and rapidly effective house training is very much (more) achievable without the necessity to use puppy pads, newspapers, urine scented sprays etc ;) Of several dogs I've trained over the years I've never used a sheet of paper nor training pad and yet in my medium sized but slow maturing breed I have not had any indoor accidents so late in life as you say you've been having with your Labs ....
The fact that this method has served you well over many years and many dogs is all well and good if you don't have the desire to raise your expectations of when most dogs can be reliable to ask out or hold on of course. However most posters asking info on how best to house train clearly wouldn't be doing so if they'd done it regularly over a number of years with a number of dogs ;)
IMO it is therefore better to encourage such new owners to be ever vigilant in watching their pups and to not risk confusing them with "sometimes indoors, sometimes outdoors is OK" messages as the same posters almost invariably come back a few weeks/months later with queries as to why their double-standards technique doesn't seem to be reaping the desired reward :)
Regards, Teri