My cousins husband is dying from a brain tumour. He's had it for several years and unfortunately it's too deeply embedded for them to operate. He's gone through chemo, but this last week he has been suffering from many mini-strokes, and some not so very mini strokes. It looks like he doesn't have long now. She got him home on Friday, but it was touch and go. They have been so devoted to one another over the years I hate to think of them going through this. She is like my older sister (I only have brothers) Apparently he no longer recognises anyone and she has asked me not to call, or visit just now. It just upsets him. :( I just wish I could there for her.

So sorry to hear about your cousins husband. My thoughts and best wishes to you and your family. :-( {{{{HUGS}}}} xxx

So sorry for you and your family :(

I'll keep you and your family in my thoughts.....sending lots of {{{HUGS}}} to you

I will keep you all in my prayers.. be very brave for him
xxxpolly

So sorry Lindylou,

Your cousin, her husband and your entire family are in my prayers.  This is a very distressing time and I know a difficult one to go through.

May God bless you all with courage and strength.

Teri xxx  

((((hugs)))) and prayers from us here too :( xx

So sorry to read your news - thoughts and prayers are with your cousin and her husband.  {{hugs}} to you all.   Keep strong for her - she will need you in the future.

Margot

So very sorry to hear of this, Lindlou, I can only imagine the heartache and sadness your cousin is going through. I pray that she will be given the strength to cope with whatever lies ahead.
Thinking of you all.
xx

Hi LindyLou,

I am very sorry to here of your families heart ache. I know exactly what you are all going through and it isn't easy. Please take comfort in everyones good wishes, they will bring the greatest strength.

Thinking of you and yours,

Nat xxx

Thank you everyone. My cousin is very strong willed, which hopefully will help her through this. Her children are close by, so at least she has them. I just wish I could help her, but she has asked me not to call just now. I feel so numb just now, waiting for the call. I dread to think what she must be feeling.

Sorry to hear this very sad news. Just be there for her when the end comes as I am sure she will appreciate you near her to give her support .

Sending by best wishes and hope he ends his suffering soon .

Lucy
xx

Sorry to hear that Linda , all you can do is to be there for her when you get that call.

my thoughts and prayers are with you all I know how you must all be feeling my son-in-law lost his 7year old daughter to and inoperable brain tumour just after new year this year. She will know you are their for her and will appreciate your support

Our thoughts are with you,we will say a prayer for you all.

Sheila.xxx

So sorry to hear of this distressing news :(

My neighbour some years ago had a brain tumour and some time before she went, asked for friends and neighbours not to visit...it was sad as of course people wanted to see her but had to abide by her wishes.

Lindsay
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Thanks again. I've not heard anything yet, so can only hope that no news is good news.

I've seen both sides of this as my next door neighbour had a brain tumour years ago. He made a full recovery and is now back driving lorries. However we knew when my cousins hubby was diagnosed that they couldn't do anything for him, and it would not end nicely.

I've sent my cousin all your best wishes and asked her to get in touch when she is ready. At least she isn't far away so I can go quickly when she needs me.

So sorry you and your family are going through this :(
Thinking of you all.

So sorry (((hugs))) prayers