
wow!..Its been a year (nearly to the day!) since this thread started...(I'd forgotten all about it!!...how embarrassing!)
what a difference a year makes!...
Thankfully, very quickly, I learnt throwing stones from my Glass House was more stupid than the (assumed) stupidity I was moaning about :rolleyes: (<- at self!)
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and also that my PMT combined with voicing (questionable) opinion is not a good move! best go off and eat chocolate and calm down...then the brain can be engaged before the mouth!! ;) )
The best lessons learnt are all ways the ones where you have no one else to blame but yourself, so you have to take the onus!
Well a year on.. and no surprises my stance is
completely different to that first voiced!
The end result, we now have a dog where we go to public beaches,busy forestry commission walks, public parkland always on lead (off lead on our own land which is secure) or attached to a bike.. mostly he's too busy sniffing or running to be bothered with stopping to meet other dogs, but when a meeting is forced or he takes a fancy to be sociable then its sniff, move on, or sniff, play :)
No more growls or vocals,lunging,Paw on back, on toes stance, hackles up.........
We learnt:
- Build your dog up to succeed
- where meetings couldnt be controlled..the first point couldnt happen! simple.
- so walking in public areas and expecting others to take the onus that was mine was a)unfair b) unachievable
- I was right about not going straight to training classes (group) it was reassuring when apbt trainers I spoke to agreed that it would be disruptive and dissadvantageous for all concerned and that a Behaviourists assement would be required before classes could be attended anyway.
- I rallied round as many friends as I could, and worked on controlled one to one meetings, found a good behaviourist to help me with assesing and my time frames, and started by simply walking round in large circles ,using 'watch me' and reward (instantly) circles get smaller when behaviour is calm, any lunging and its back to a wider circle, good behaviour and slowly the circles decrease and a my dog gets to meet the other who is standing in the centre of the cricles we're making...again any bad behaviour and its straight out to the wide circle.. and so on, rewarding for calm behaviour, for watching me,and for looking at the other dog but not lunging or eyeballing and returning attention to me.
-lots of controlled and varying exercises of which the above is just one example, slowly slowly building it up.
- we walked on our own land and as if we had an in season bitch, and the ends justified the means...within 3 months (training an hour everyday without fail..it has to be consistent) we could then walk in public areas and meet other dogs. I doubt very much we would have been (longterm) successful if we had not have taken that time out.
So I have to say with the benefit of hindsight ;) and the even better benefit of success...
"Build your dog up to succeed"
And that'll only happen if you realise the problem is yours to rectify and not everyone elses :D