
thank you Brainless. :o)
at last now you are posting with some thought and constructive comment rather than your initial post which seemed to be just a sneering jibe!
(not really very helpful in a forumn??)
I appreciate.. perhaps I have not made my case perfectly clear (damn how long did you want me to make my post..'war and peace'!!??)
but to clarify... of course your tips on sitting with him at park gates etc are top notch, and of course this is how we initially approached his re introduction to society (my turn now for the sarcastic.."Duhhhhhhh!")
however you were not to know that! perhaps questioning me rather than sweeping presumption and procastination might be more helpful (?)
its a gentle re introduction of course I have not just thrown him into the lions den so to speak!!!!
Further more, this afternoon after reading some of the postings here I headed off to the park.. somewhat disheartened..... and is always the way when black clouds loom..... a ray of sun broke through..... in the form of a cracking owner and his even more cracking little cavalier king charles:
we passed on a wooded path way the spaniel was leashed, I stepped off the track to allow them decent space of passage, now as the situation was a calm passing of ships both dogs paused to asses the situation, both calmly, as their owners had control (and were calm... I have no paranoia thanks Brain!) and it was a chilled meeting.. they decided they liked each other and played quite happily.
we walked some way together... and of course owners striking up conversation I was soo glad to have the owner say how nice it was for his dog to not be bull dozed for once by another dog (which terrifies him.. thedog!)
so thank you john and 'pickles' !! (I know your watching after our conversation today! xxx)
Now: my point.... perhaps I wasnt clear Brainless:
My dog is intimidated by a stampede towards him, in this situation, yes at this stage of the game, I start to walk him away from the careering dog hurtling towards us... he will display an aggressive FACADE.
however dogs we meet, leashed OR unleashed that do not intimidate but trott over or past he will not bat an eye lid.
SO THIS IS WHY I FEEL I CAN WALK HIM IN COMMUNAL AREAS.
I HAVE NEVER SAID ALL DOGS SHOULD BE LEASHED OFF COURSE NOT!
BUT MERELY OWNERS AS THE ONES THAT MUST SET EXAMPLE TO THEIR DOG MUST SHOW CONSIDERATION. THIS DOES NOT NESC. MEANING LEASHING BUT SIMPLY RECALL OR SIT STAY COMMAND TILL THE OWNER IS CLOSE ENOUGH TO JOINTLY ASSES THE SITUATION.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
for those posting from people who have their beloved companions injured or worse had fatal encounters with aggressive dogs... in the true sense... all i can say is PERSONALLY, if my dog had done this or displayed this I would muzzle.. most definately.... we have other places we can go to play and play ball.. but this walk is his learning curve walk... its work.. ties in with play.
BUT.... as highlighted by another owner... his aggression is an act he growls alot but if he comes into direct contact with an un relenting dog trying to then ignore his warning shots... he will just 'Bounce them' or try the 90 degrees stand over dominant thing... nothing worse. tho' I am minded anything could happen.
is it really tooooooooo much to ask for a little understanding?????????
Im lucky I get to walk my sibe 4 times a day we have the luxury of having some out in the wilds walks where we wont come across anyone, and we have our walk once daily in the park this is work or school for my dog.. the other 3 walks are fun away from the madding crowds.
brainless: my dog aside, but looking at the big picture.. what about the owners who have posted here who say they have nervous dogs... that whilst not aggressive suffer in the same way from over exuberant overly sociable dogs (and is it really sociable to be a bully??? playful or no... still bullying to the intimidated dog!)
THE WORLD IS A BIG PLACE THERE'S ROOM FOR US ALL..IS IT TOO MUCH TO ASK TO BE OPEN MINDED AND CURTEOUS????????????????????????????
with the best will in the world x