Hi Kathy,
Welcome to the forum.
Probably both depending on her mood at the time :rolleyes: :D Seriously, it just depends on a lot of factors including their personalities. Just give her a place that's hers so she can escape the little guy when she gets tired and keep favoring her over him. Also, Don't plan to leave them alone together where they can get physically at one another until he grows up a bit.
There's others here that will likely offer up more suggestions to you. Enjoy your puppy and your girl :)
toodles