hi im deeply concerened about my 3 month old staff when i tell him off for something naughty i change my tone of voice to say no!! he cowers and his ears are flat back sometimes he creeps to me with his belly touching the floor and rolls on his back does this mean he is frightened of me just when i change my tone of voice i only do it so he understands im not happy with him please help what do i do

Can I suggest an alternative?

The severity of chastisement is measured by the receiver, not the donor.

Why do you feel the need to tell him off?

Perhaps a more fruitful partnership could be created by you praising him when he has done something that you want and ignoring inappropriate behaviour.

Punishment inhibits learning in both dogs and people...........

Dogs are not deliberately "naughty" they just do what works..........

This is typical submissive/appeasement posture. He knows you're angry and is doing his best to change your mood. He may not have any idea of what's actually mmade you angry - he's not 'acting guilty'; he doesn't know he's 'done wrong'. Dogs are very sensitive to tone of voice. It sounds as though he's a very sensitive individual who'll need gentle handling.

I agree;  take a look at the problems and try to solve them in other ways. For instance if he is chewing something, address it by using anti chew sprays or vicks or oil of cloves on furniture, keep the dog to one room and supply with stuffed kongs. Consider why he may be chewing, eg anxiety, teething if dog is a pup, etc. and if necessary get help. If there are any specific problems which are driving you mad, do register with Champdogsforum and get more help :)

Lindsay
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