hi my question is ,which is best to feed raw meat with bones or cooked meat with bones or boiled meat with bones.

Bones should NEVER be fed once cooked.Cooking maks them brittle and hence dangerous.
RAW bones are fine...including chicken!
Archer

I second what Archer has said, there are some very good books on BARFing, and it really is best to read up on these first before embarking on the diet, as what suits some dogs, to my detriment along the way, I have found out, doesn't suit others :)

HTH