
Do any training away from jess, prefurbly at a ringcraft (if you mention where you are someone may know a good one near you!) if you can't get to a ringcraft at least try to do the training away from jess, she won't be there in the ring with him, so he must learn to do it all by himself. also make it fun, you need to have a bond with your boy, more then jess does!
good luck