I've just recently lost a second cousin, and it struck me that i intended to send a card to his widow, but then found myself thinking "but what about his brother and his daughter?" and wondered if i should also send a card to them.

For the life of me i cannot remember what people did when my mother and father died; i think my sister and i got cards after dad died, (being the nearest kin) but I believe that when my mum died, most cards did go to my dad. I'm a bit confused as to what to do for the best. Any advice would be appreciated :)

Lindsay
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Thats an idea but it would be nice to send them to them as well

Hi Lindsay i know when my died some of my friends sent cards to my mum but also sent my sister and myself cards just out of respect, thinking of you with regards polly_45

Thanks for your thoughts on the subject; I have decided now to send a couple more cards :)

Lindsay
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