
My oldest dog was very nervous and I couldn't understand where I'd gone wrong with her because I did my best to socialise her and get her used to every day life.....but she still showed signs of nerves (she sometimes displayed nervous agression and when this happened I would remove her from the problem). We did obedience training together, although at times I think she found it a bit too much to cope with, but on the whole she did really well with it. As she has matured (she's now five years old) she has become much more tolerant and confident in herself.
I was spectating at a dog show a couple of years ago and happened to chat to a lady there who knew of my dogs breeding, and in fact she told me that she had helped to rear my dogs litter because the dam had rejected them.....this was news to me because when we visited the litter mum was there, but not very involved with her pups, and we were told that she had recently weaned them, I often wonder if that could have affected her and made her nervy?
I'm not for one minute suggesting that anyone get another dog, but having our Ava around also made a difference to how Scarlet behaved so I think it is a good idea to get your dog to mix with friendly dogs.
Scarlet still gets freaked by a few things but it doesn't cause huge problems anymore. (she used to dislike buses, teenagers, young kids - especially blonde haired boys!, certain breeds of dog (still a problem), cuttlery (don't know how that one came about), fireworks (still a problem), the vacuum and my hairdryer (still a problem).
I thought our Ava would have picked up on Scarlets fear of certain things, but she's quite the opposite and doesn't seem to let anything phase her! ;)
With patience and good training strategies she will improve, most importantly I learn't not to overeact when my dog got fearful because it reinforces the fear and makes them even more scared of the situation.
Good luck!
Mair