
My vet is a gem and would never shut me out of the OR. I have watched many procedures like this including spay's and C-sect's.
A vet who understands and respects you as an owner and appreciates that having the owner there can be helpful with a dog as it makes them less stressed is worth a lot.
I think it is a two sided coin and if you respect your vet and accept that they have to make a living, then you will get respect back. I often hear moans on CD about cost of treatments etc.. and my vet is no different, they are not the cheapest nor the most expensive, but they are very very understanding of my wishes and accommodate me happily. That makes the bills much easier to swallow.
I would never expect to be shut out during scans, C-sects, or anything else. X-rays are somewhat different. I have never had a bitch x-rayed while in whelp so have no idea if they would sedate, but everyone leaves the room during other x-rays if only for the few seconds it takes. However I am always there during sedation and recovery and during placement of the dog, I also get to look at the x-rays immediately with the vet while the dog wakes up .
Not all the vets in the practice are quite so happy to have me there, but they do as the newer ones joined the practise after I did (so to speak) and they accept that it is how it has always been. The 3 vets I use most are the partners and they are all great, the vet I use 99% of the time has become a friend now. !!
The practice also does all its own out of hours cover so another huge + for me.
I am more than happy to pay a little extra for the service as the benefits far outweigh the costs.
Aileen
PS I always scan my girls at 4 weeks and my vet and I have bets on numbers ;-) We both know the scans are just a conformation and not a counting exercise. When she was expecting a few years ago the standing joke was should we scan her and see how many "pups" she was carrying !!!