
Ok. Most of what you are saying sounds pretty normal to me other than not letting
anybody near the puppies, especially you? If she's had puppies before, was she the same because quite honestly if any of mine acted like that, one litter would have been it. I'd not expect her to be happy for all and sundry coming around yet however.
Eating in the whelping box - fine. Water can be placed outside so when she does go out, she can 'tank up' before going back to the litter. And early days mine have sometimes had to be coaxed out on a lead to attend to biz. At that point I'd do a puppy weighing, and general clean up of the whelping box before letting her back in with them
She does NOT need 'puppy food'. I have no idea when all this started, but again (and again) puppy food is for puppies to eat, not adults/mum. She should be on the same top qualify food she always eats, with, as she has a big litter, more of the same + more protein - chicken etc.
Whether or not she needs 'a break is debatable. You may think she does, but if she's only newly whelped, after being sure she's empty, she just needs peace and quiet to rest with her new brood, with you keeping an eye on proceedings. This is the time she should be doing all the work - until you begin weaning them. Don't make her rest away from them. She wants to be with them, and quite rightly at this point.
If she's restless and won't settle, you might consider whether she has some retained whelping material which needs to come out. Again if she's had a litter before, you should know that?