
I found a crate with an extended pen invaluable - for the puppy not the older dog. It took over the room quite a bit, but was worth it. They get used to having each other there, as well as you, and learn to relax and play separately - not forgetting that young pups also need a lot of sleep. I always supervised any play/interactions to make sure they were positive. I use distraction, such as a tugging toy to redirect excessive play by the youngsters.
When I got my little terrier mix with my 8yr gentle Elkhound I also used an Adaptil plug in, I don't know whether it worked but they were great mates and she wasn't particularly bothered about playing with other dogs, apart from him. She would stand in the middle of the room and just playbow at him and then he'd do the zoomed and so on :D
I just feel it's important that the existing dog isn't disturbed too much and teach the pupils to fit in - obviously not neglecting pup but they do need a lot of sleep
I hope things work out for you ;if not, returning the puppy sooner rather than later may be best.