
Me again! (With Welsh Terrier in tow :P )
I know EXACTLY how you feel!
Due to a poorly timed season my WT first show was bath champs, and we came 3rd out of three. I was heart broken because I had tried so hard but when my bitch stood against the others in the class it was a no brainer, she was a mess in comparison! At that point I had been teaching myself with pointers from someone in the breed club over email, but its impossible to read a "how to strip" and get it right! That was back in may, and I had been stripping since March. It wasn't until I met another really helpful breed club member at Bath (and since at other shows) that has given me practical advice on stripping. We recently went to Welsh kennel club, and although we didn't come last - I went thinking my grooming was spot on - but again she looked completely different to the first and 2nd placed dogs!
I would say take the practical advice of this lady that gave you pointers at the show. If she is judging then she knows what to look for, and she is obviously getting results from her techniques. This is what worked for me. I would love to go back to my breeder but she is hours away :( So have to just take the advice I get when I see them and other exhibitors at shows.
Since Welsh Kennel club my stripping "mentor" has told me to take my dogs shoulders head and neck completely bald and I have done - she almost instantly looks better! But I wouldn't have known to do that if I hadnt been told. I am now stripping almost very day, its a very laborious task! But it has to be done.
I often sit at the grooming table thinking "why didnt I just get something that needed toweling over once a day" Haha! Dont give up, its very rewarding once youve got there! Ive been stripping now for 5 months, (A drop in the ocean compared to people in my breed and groomers!) but there is still a wayyyy to go. So don't give up! :D