
My oldest bitch is the attention on her terms sort, and is too proud to be constantly petted. Her daughter is quite the reverse, as is her Great Grandaughter but different.
Number two is a sweet sugary soul who disolves at your feet, and loves cuddles, number four is very affectionate, but in a pushy way.
Her Mum, number three is what I would call Prissy, loves affection and attention, but more for the position and superiority over the others that she perceives it gives her. If someone is getting a fuss she wants it. She is also more obedient than the others in that she loves to come racing back first, to show how much better than them she is.
When meeting peoplke on walks it will be number three that wants to gret first followed by pushy number four, nu7mber three tries to look apealing, and number one will complain and want to move on, unless she has been petted first, as befits her position (she thinks) being the eldest. At home if the others are getting a fuss, she won't come and compete, but will bark to go outside or for a drink or whatever, anything to distract you from paying the others attention. She can't take physical petting for more than a minute, for her it is all about attention.
As I only have bitches I cannot comment on sex difference only say that they are all different within their expected broad breed specific traits.