
Hi Kathleen,
7 yrs ago I was where you are at now with my dog (re-homed Siberian Husky) he arrived to me a charging,lunging,leaping, baying ASBO dog!
Today, I can walk him anywhere (as I've mentioned on the site before even in Central London through thronging crowds) he walks loose leash with manners and consideration and greets other dogs calmly.
He is now an absolute joy to own and we often get complimented on walks as to how obedient he is ( a Husky!!? And reformed ASBO one at that..Who'd a thunk! ;-) )
So it can be done!
But for that reason
I am going to strongly disagree with everyone thus farI urge you most emphatically to get in touch with an APDT or APBC trainer or behaviourist. These two organisations are the most highly regarded in the UK for the use of
positive training methodsAssosciation of pet behaviour counsellors UKAssosciation of pet dog trainers UKReading books and articles
alone will not work, I can tell you that now from bitter experience!
I had lived with working dogs all my life and had even just returned to the UK after a stint of working in a sled dog racing kennel in N.America. I considered myself very 'clued up' on dog behaviour (was the first Member here to introduce Turid Ruggas' calming signals for dogs to this forum)
But I also thankfully realised that sometimes with behavioural problems the owner often gets into a 'can't see the woods for the trees' situation.
I strongly believe (and have evidenced) that the owner
needs to have another pair of eyes on this situation (NOT the eyes at the other end of the lead)... An educated eye can observe the subtleties in both dog and owners action and body language and assess the situation and behaviour in order to
correctly diagnose and begin a training plan of development!
Also an APBT or APBC trainer can manage training sessions, in which their 'stooge' dogs will be used... I think it is wholey
unfair of an owner of an unpredictable/untrained dog to use everyone else's dogs as unwitting stooges in their training! Why should the Lab owner have 'hung back' and possibly subjected her own dog to more stress and eyeballing just because you could'nt manage your dog? (I don't mean to be lecturing here! This is what my trainer said to me!! And it was a wake up call!!~ I know exactly what your going through)
There is NO substitute for the eyes, ears and real time, As it happens advice from a good trainer.In my 8 years as a member here I have lost count of the people who have posted for behavioural advice but, for what ever reason, have not worked with an ethical accredited positive method trainer or behaviourist and still have ongoing problems with their dogs :-(
The cost of an APDT or APBC trainer is
much less than the cost of vet bills from injured dogs in a fight!!I wish you every luck, it can be done!
But for everyone's sake, yours, your dog and all the people you meet on walks and their dogs I hope my advice and experience will give you hope and get you picking up the phone today.
You both can do it, set your dog up to succeed :-D I did and life is sooooo much better when your dog can go everywhere with you and be bombproof!