
Hello Alice, I guess I'm the opposite end of the spectrum, raised in a family that never had more than one dog at a time and knew nothing about showing anything at all. I have four now, three dogs and a bitch puppy.
I got into showing by accident in my early 50s (!) after treating myself to a much longed for dog once I began working from home and my children had left or were on the verge of leaving home-. I bought my first dog with the intention of working him, which we did in a very amateur but fun way. I tried him with ringcraft (he hated it) and showed him just once before it transpired he had a retained testicle.
I acquired a second dog aged 10 months about 16 months later on pet home terms from a breeder who had shown him as a junior, but with 6 bitches she never keeps dogs beyond 9 or 10 months. Jack was my 'practice' dog and I show him at open shows. I then had a real stroke of luck acquiring my third dog from lines I had always wanted, and I remember saying to his breeder "will you mind if I don't show him?" Famous last words! In an effort to support breed club activities I took him to the breed champ show three years ago aged 9 months, with no ringcraft practice to speak of, and he qualified for Crufts first time out, though as the club chairman told me, he'd been placed in spite of my handling. Cue much ringcraft in an effort to avoid shaming the dog and providing club members with a store of after dinner tales to keep all and sundry in stitches. Needless to say Bean's early success was no indication of things to come--he did qualify the following year, but his transition between puppy, junior and postgrad classes was not easy becuase by comparison to others in his class he was always under-developed.
So moving on to this year: Jack has grown up and won his reserve CC at the club champ show just over two months ago. Bean has qualified again for Crufts and is slowly racking up points for his ShCM. And most of all, we now have Bean's niece, sired by his litter brother who is the top winning dog in our breed for two years running and by a bitch I have admired since she was a puppy. Rye has just turned 6 months and went into the show ring for the first time three weeks ago, and she loves it.
On ringcraft, we have been to local classes, which unfortunately weren't that good; we now travel over an hour each way to get to a really good class, and we do a lot of training outdoors. I also invested in 1 to 1 classes with one of the top handlers in this country, and he has helped me in a million ways that I would not have had in a class. So I guess the message is: join your breed club(s), don't assume you will get the training you need all in one place so don't be reluctant to try other ringcraft classes; go to as many shows as you can (of all types, it's a good apprenticeship); watch the best handlers you can find (I am embarrassed to say I barely looked at other dogs in the ring and only concentrated on what their handlers were doing) and watch other breeds, too (plenty on YouTube, good and bad); ask lots of questions, you'll learn faster...and be sure you enjoy it for its own sake, because it can be expensive and hard going before you win your class again :-).
If anyone had told me even 5 years ago that I would be taking my dogs out like this I'd have fallen over and cried laughing. It is seriously addictive and dangerous to your wealth, but fantastic fun.