
My son would stay over night at a fellow nurses house whilst I was at work, one morning I went to pick him up and there were no adults in the house, 5 kids including my son who was about 10, one toddler running around, one new born in her pram, an 11yr old with mild cerebral palsy and a 15yr old, the latter was in the shower, Dad had gone to pick Mum up from her second job,there were lit candles everywhere because the electric had run out, I went nuts and went round blowing them all out, took my son and went home, I later discovered that this wasn't the first time this had happened and that the 15yr old had been told to remove them when daylight came in and before I arrived.
I had words later and he never stayed there again.
I nursed several burn victims over the years, kids and adults and the damage can never be undone.
Things can catch light so easily so don't want to risk it.