>but I find it strange how many people accept it as being okay
I'm with you on this one Zan. I had a Toy Poodle with the problem, and she had both legs done. Naturally, I didn't breed from her, but she lived a very good life, and I had her until just before her 17th birthday.
I would tell anyone that it's worth it. She never had arthritis problems, and could do a standing jump to my shoulder. It was an extremely successful operation, worth every penny.