
That is what I have found as Nova says I am very gregarious and strike up conversations with everyone, bus stops, shops, stakes classes at shows, but many newcomers are not as bold to just dive in and the whole thing puts them off.
As a teen I went all around the country to Rabbit shows, stayed to the end to help dismantle, stewarded etc, and got to know and be known by people all over the country resulting in offers of lifts to shows, got adopted by several 'couples' who had me stay over to be able to get to shows where the trains didn't get me there early enough etc.
A lady who joined our Breed Face book page had joined the club, came to a club show, felt out of her depth and never attempted to come again as no-one seemed to take an interest in her (could well have been that as the venue often has several events no-one realised she was interested in the breed and meeting owners), she didn't rejoin or ever come to another event.
Now that we have this feedback I think there are moves to make it easier for new people to find a person to welcome them, maybe name tags for committee, or a photo etc.
It's so easy if your like us to forget for some people a new situation and a hall full of strangers is very daunting. Never gave it a thought until hubby pointed it out to me that he felt like a spare wheel most fo teh time. Having something for the OH's and kids to see and do is vital if we are to attract couples and families to our sport. Stand alone Open shows jsut don't cut it, but oens run along other events are really good.