
For those that don't know me; I am Swedish and although I have lived in England since 1988 (arrived as an adult), I have never been able to understand the English school system. It doesn't matter how many times I ask, I don't even know what grades (or is it called year?) my kids are in, I don't understand what GCSE and A levels and similar are and do, it all confuses me a LOT. For the past 10 years my kids have lived with their dad and only seen me at weekends, so I have had no practical involvement in school issues which obviously means I have never learnt more. In a nutshell: I haven't got a clue how things work!
My middle daughter is almost 17. When she was 14 she started doing a hairdressing course at college, and so she went to college some days a week and to normal school some days. Then when normal school finished at 16, she had two options, either continue the last year at college to get qualified in hairdressing, or go to sixth form (why is it called SIXTH form?) for a couple of years and then finish the college course after that. I should probably have kept my mouth shut as I clearly don't know enough, but I said to her that I thought it made more sense to finish college first rather than take a break of 2 years, and get the qualification. Then she could go back to school after that, and she'd have more choices as to what to do with her life. She decided to do this and although she was accepted both into sixth form and to the final year at college last year, she chose college.
Then she realised she really does not want to be a hairdresser after all, she's not enjoying the final year and understands she will not enjoy working as a hairdresser for life, and what she really wants is to continue to study and then eventually go to university. So she applied to go to sixth form in September this year after she's finished college. And she was turned down. Basically the school told her she is now out of the academic school system and cannot come back.
I have Googled and Googled but I just DON'T get the system, I get plenty of web pages but I don't understand at all what is meant -I am totally confused, but of course want to help. Does anyone know if there is any way she can continue to study (she wants to do English Language and Literature), so that she can then apply to university after that? Is there no other way than sixth form? Not even for adults or from home or online? I could really do with some pointers -this is the one area where I still feel like a 100 % foreigner here! I know how it works in Sweden, it's so straight forward in comparison -to me anyway. Would be very grateful of anyone could help a bit with info.