
Thank you all for the kind thoughts, it really is a comfort.
It's absolutely fine with me to discuss how, when and what's better for you and them just now, so don't worry about that :-)
I'm relieved in a funny sort of way as now I know what to expect and I've been here before with my heart and soul dog Celeste.
For me I'm finding this situation where I've only discovered the cancer near the end, to have been better than with Celeste where I found it early, and then had 7 months of worry and looking for every little sign of the cancer spreading. I have everything planned out, and the vets said she'll be able to come out on the same day I phone, I think I'll also take him to the crematorium myself, it's in Larkhall which isn't too far away, for some reason I find the thought of him in a freezer at the vets waiting to be picked up, more upsetting than having him pts.
Chaumsong, he's on Tramadol already for his hips, perhaps that's why it went so long undetected ?, he was fine one day, he'd even caught and killed a rabbit, next day, flat as a pancake.
It's the great tragedy of loving dogs, as soon as you get them and go " awww, your very cute " your caught in the trap of loving them and having to say goodbye one day :-(