> she does not seem in any pain when she loses balance, she just seems uncoordinated
Sounds exactly like my old borzoi boy, he has just been diagnosed with CDRM. It doesn't bother him at all but he does fall down quite often, usually if he tries to turn to quickly because his back legs are so uncoordinated.
He too screamed when the vet was examining him, this has now been put down to arthritis in his spine so perhaps they need to look further than the hips?
I have a friend who is a canine physiotherapist and she said that she puts all her CDRM clients on vitamin b complex and it does seem to help, may be worth asking the vet if she can go on it anyway?