
Just thought I would update this.
Talli has made a bit of a come back! I don't think the sickness and diarrhea were anything to do with his current problems afterall, although I was getting rather worried as he didn't even seem to able to stomach plain water when the vomiting started on the Sunday morning. I starved him for 24 hours and nothing else abnormal from either end since then. He has been "upgraded" to the AG Prestige food in the last couple of days and seems to be enjoying this.
Spoke to the vet and think I have just decided to leave be. He said to measure water intake in terms of assessing kidney function as a first port of call (still not sure why we can't just take a blood test). This is rather difficult as he has a paddling pool in the garden which he loves playing in and he often stops in there for a beverage, and there is also a stream he drinks from on one of our walks. If ever I walk with one of my dog walking friends we both take water for the dogs, and they share the bowl etc. I would have to stop him doing these things to accurately measure water intake which I don't want to do. I don't think there is much we can do if he is in some degree of kidney failure anyway - he doesn't have years ahead of him so I'm not about to start dramatically changing his diet etc as it is about quality of life rather than quantity for him.
Just don't understand why we can't look at the calcium level as if it is high and therefore damaging the kidneys can this not be controlled to slow any further damage. He is terribly nervous at the vets though so perhaps it is best to just let him have however long he has left. He has already exceeded expectations so every day is a bonus for us.