It sounds as if he learned to 'anticipate' that you would leave him alone. Soothing or telling off definitely doesn't work in this case... because either way, you're feeding his stress to encourage more. Ignoring, would be best neutral way..but it doesn't quite work over the long run either.
Chienne does the same wind up as you said your dog does, but my dogs are hooked to the seatbelts, so I know exactly where they are. She gets so bad, that it causes Samma to start whining. Then each one feeds off one another
I borrowed something from a behavioralist, I can't remember who... but I first started doing this at traffic lights...
I'd reach around and put my arm on her shoulder and press at the same time I'd tell her to lie down. First couple of times, it was like a Jack-in-the-Box. She'd pop back up to moan loudly again (usually in my ear). Then she learned that everytime she moaned, she'd have to lie down where she couldn't see out.
So now, she'll start moaning, but automatically lie down to do so. (hey, it's much quieter now) .. then when we get going again, she'll sit back up to quietly look out the window. Occasionally, she'll grumble, but she's stopped the panicked wind-up :rolleyes:
Basically, she doesn't like traffic lights, nor parking lots. Too much doggy stress. It's out of her 'pattern' and she doesn't know what's going on, perhaps. I"m taking a wild guess and trying to figure out her thinking.
(We won't mention how wierd it was to stop at a light and have people waiting for the tram standing right next to our car. Not Normal and they SPOKE to her!! -- oh, nooooo puppy stress!!!!!!
;) ) Highways and autobahns and continual driving....that's wonderful. :rolleyes: They sleep or watch out the window. Neurotic, ain't she?? And she knows the difference between packing for a long road trip by what goes into the car.... absolutely no moaning at all, then. Even when we pull in for a quick stop at a burger place :rolleyes: :) Dogs!!!!!
regards,
toodles