> on the lead he can rip your arm out at 7stone
HALTI!!!! (or your chosen stye of head-collar) :) Honeslty, I don't think I would have coped without one! It really is amazing how much control a head-harness will give.
Buster was about 7 months old when I really started to think I could not handle him :( I had put in LOADS of work with general lead walking and he was great...Untill there were distractions :( At that age, he got loads more out-going and suddenly wanted to jump on everything - people, other dogs. He just wanted to play, but he had NO self-control and would pull, lunge and even jump inthe air, turning a full360 degrees, before landing - REPEATEDLY

With the halti, I could physically keep hold of him without worrying about being knocked over/limbs broken/letting go, so my mind was free to focus on teaching, rather than 'damage limitation'!
I always use a seperate lead on the halti, only a small light-weight one, for 2 reasons:
1) safety, they can back out of/flick out of a halti if they put enough force into doing so, using a seperate lead means you still have hold of them on the normal lead attatched to the collar.
2) 'Steering'. You can keep hold of (HUGE) pup via the normal lead with one hand and GENTLY use the other hand to steer the face toward you (helps break focus form distractions and get it back on you). I also find it handy for steering slobbery-chops away from passer-bys thighs!
PEOPLEproblem - Buster wanted to greet most people he saw, especially women and if somebody said "hiya" - that was it, he thought they were talking to him so would drag me to see them, mostly on his back legs (his head nearly level with my face

). Once at them he would jump around playfully with no self-controll.
What I didKeep vigilant, spot people before pup does. When person approaching, get pups attention BEFORE he sees them/gets excited. Keep pup calm by giving commands and praising/treating for doing commands. I always use 'wait' as Buster knows that means
"be still, do nothing & you will get rewarded". Tell apraoching people that want to greet, to NOT touch pup untill he is calm and if pup gets excited to step back. I would get Buster to sit side-on, so his side was facing the person - less exciting/threatening for pup and easier to get pups attantion on you (you have halti, you can steer him to look at you :) ).
Buster is 4 years old now and whenever he greets somebody new, I still get him to stand side-on to them. In fact he does it himself now. I always have him on my right, holding the lead in right hand, treats come from left hand, so he knows when greting somebody that he must step his front to my left for a treat and person can stroke his side.
I aways have instructed people to stroke Busters back NOT his head/shoulders
(once he knows somebody very well that rule doesn't apply)
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OTHER DOGSproblemExtreme excitement and wanting to play, resulting in me being pulled all over the place. (
see first part of post for details!)
What I did The halti helped loads here
(see first part of post for deatails!)
. Same as above, in being vigilant and spotting dogs BEFORE Buster did. As soon as we saw another dog heading our way, I would get Buster off the pathway
(so no need to worry if I lost control and he was spining in circles- he couldn't knock anyone over!)
and stand still. I found that by keeping moving forward would only add to the excitement. So, stand still, get pups attention (same as for people - rewards/praise for following commmands, eg. 'wait'). Keep praising pup for being calm. WARN other dog-walker that pup is friendly but will jump aournd (
or whatever your pups favourite loony-stunt is!)
. Allow other dog to appraoch you pup, not the other way around
(huge, excitable pups can be worrying for other dogs)
, as long as pup is behaving let themgreet, if he gets OTT, move him back.
I've not let Buster loose other than a long-line. His long-lineis attatched to a chest harness to prevent the whip-lash tyoe neck injuries.
Buster got used ot having to 'wait' (stand still) when he spotted other dogs, pretty quickly, but even when he was out on his long-line I would pop him on the short lead for greeting other dogs.
From your latest posts it sounds like you are doing great :-D I hope you don't mind the veeery long ramble! I know what it feels like to have a huge, powerfull pup that is hard to physically control, hopefully my waffle may make you feel a bit more like you are not on your own :) or you may even find something usefull in my waffle!! :)
Keep calm, confidant and try to think ahead. You'll get there, your boy is still a baby. Buster is appraoching 4 years old now, he weighs about 14 stone, he can still get excited when meeting dogs, but I can hold him easily in one hand without loosing my balance or needing to put any effort in and whats more - he will listen to me (mostly)! Never thought I'd be able to do that!
I'll say good luck, but it looks like you don't need luck, you're doing great allready :)