> I didnt mention that if i gave her a deposit she would have to sell me one by law (even if she didnt like me)
I don't think you will find that is true unless they don't make the terms clear. Of course the seller can't have their cake and eat it, if they break the contract then the deposit has to be refunded, it is only non refundable if the buyer pulls out.
http://www.legalwebreview.com/receipts/receipt-non-refundable-deposit-security-sale/"Once you agree to the Non-Refundable Deposit, you are bound by it, even if you change your mind afterward, regarding the use of the service.
Buyer pays Deposit and balance amount of the service product, then only he would be liable to use the offered product.
If the balance amount for the service is not paid, buyer forfeits the deposit and seller retains the deposit as damages.
If the seller is unable to supply the agreed product or breach the contract, then buyer is liable for the full refund according to the law."
I always take a deposit from people I am happy with to have a puppy once a litter is born and people definitely want a puppy, as I may have to put off other potential good owners, so we need to know where we stand before I pass people on to other breeders.
With a numerically small breed both the supply and demand for pups is limited, and it may take several weeks for a suitable new enquiry to come along (we know it is
preferable for puppies to go to homes at a certain age), and from the buyers point of view they may miss out on another available puppy if you keep them dangling.
I agree though no deposit before a litter are even born, for a start there may not be a puppy of the sex required. All my puppies are sold first and foremost as companions with any wish to show being secondary.
If the person interested in the litter is already in the breed/show world then that is slightly different as they need to be sure there are pups of show potential, but I would only accept one or two such on my waiting list anyway so if there was nothing obviously of that quality it only leaves one or two pet homes to find after they are 6 weeks.