
To the right of my garden I have 3 houses with thier back-gardens backing on to my garden (if that makes snes? - they are at a right-angle to me). HOwever, we are on a hill, thier side being up-hill to us. So thier back-doors open out onto balconies which have a flight of stairs (metal steps) going down into thier gardens. In short, thier balconies look down into our garden.
1 of the houses is partly obscured from us with conifers, so we only have them gawping if we go to the bottom of our garden - but the chap there likes to hang out of his bed-room window having a cig, nosing down onto our patio
The next house has a lovely little yorkie (whom Bust has had a few walks with :) ), she will very occasioanlly chops a little bark, but if we say 'hiya' to her, she'll go all silly and wiggle around in glee :) If I do see the woman from that house we'll wave a 'hello' at each other, or she'll come down into her garden for us to have a chin-wag.
The next house has an Akita, who will stand on his balconly barking and at Buster. Buster is brill with this sort of thing though and geenrally doesn't bother, he never barks back and he ignores the people unless they say 'hi'. The people from that house are not 'gawpers' but thier kids get a lot of visitors so there tends to be streams of teens looking over & saying 'hi'.
Sorry for all the waffle, but I do know how you feel, it's a bit llike being in a fish bowl! Privacy is just a dream........
Having a little boogie around the patio whilst looking back at the gawpers tends to make them go away :)