
Hi,
Is your older dog 'growly' in these situations: 1/ people he DOES know (including children), very well. 2/ kids he doesnt know 3/ adults he doesnt know 4/ any difference between men and women, in the way he reacts.
Heres the biggy. Is he growling/'aggressive' when on the lead, either with you, or without you (ie someone else has taken him out for a walk?)
Did you socialise him when he was a baby? By this i mean, did he get to experience children, puppies, cats dogs men and women etc? If so, was there any particular nasty experience associated with any of the 'trigger' things?
Likewise, WHY is he possesive over food/toys. Are these resources TOO valuble to him, has he had to fight for them? Does he not get to play with toys as much as he would like?
In my opinion, firstly, I would reduce his possesive behaviour. Give him millions of toys, to reduce the value of them. If he has toys he really loves, dont let him have it at all, or at least, never in a situation where he feels his possession of the item is threatened.
Next do the same for food. Break down his meals into two or better, three a day (unless you feel this will make him very fussy about his meals). If he is less hungry, he has less incentive to protect his meals. If he is possesive around food towards YOU, then, hand feed him (better if you feed dry for this!!!!!), then progress to holding the bowl and dropping food into it. Do not under any circumstances take away his food bowl, even if it is to put more food in it, he doesnt know that is what you are doing, he cant count bits of kibble!
As regards his 'growling' around other people or children/puppies, I get the impression that he is either protecting you, or more likely he is in fact anxious about something. If when he has come across something that he doesnt understand, he has been pulled away from it, or he is frightened that when near you (ie on a lead) he cannot run, or defend himself from what ever it is!
I made great progress with my own dog, who used to go insane when he was on a lead, when ever anyone came near us with a dog.
I tied him up to a post, in the park, and stood next to him. Then i got a friend to walk past with a dog that he didnt know. As soon as Rocky went ballistic, i ran the opposite way. The 'stooge dog' would stay in his sight, and i would only return when Rocky was quiet! He very rapidly learnt, that screaming blue murder at other dogs was not helpful, and i would not reasure him or reward him for this behaviour. I also used John Fishers training discs as negative reinforcement, at times when running away wasnt an option.
I have also got Rocky very orientated on his ball, so that when he meets a dog that he doesnt like, i can distract him, preventing any nastiness.
I would advise you to sort out your older dogs behaviour as quickly as you can, or the chances are that your pup will pick up this behaviour as well.
Good luck, Emma