
Hi TheTwoPeas
I've been following the thread, and I'm so sorry about what you have had thrown at you.
We all have to do what is right for us and our dogs. Some people would want to explore every avenue, whatever treatment that entailed. My elderly Beardie has slowed right down, and had numerous problems. She's on tablets for her thyroid problems, has a grade 2 heart murmer, and, like your boy, has kidney problems.
Add to that, she had a splenectomy to remove a tumour 5 years ago, and took months and months to get over it. I know that if I had the same as you thrown at me, I wouldn't want her to go through surgery again. It was bad enough when she was young and strong.
But, as I said, you need to think through what the right decision would be for you and your family. As long as your boy is happy enough to wag his tail, and eat well, you may want to just leave it until he is no longer happy. And you will know when the time is right to let him go. And then love him enough to let him go. No easy decision for any of us.
{{{{ HUGS }}}}