
I used the front line spray for years, with no ill effects and I used it as a preventative measure every three months on all of mien as my eldest was flea allergic.
I then had to use the spot on when travelling using the Pet Passport scheme. the next time I used the spray on everyone the ones who had had the spot on version were terrible itchy as you describe, so much so that Jozi nibbled herself and caused hot spots and looked moth eaten for months.
My oldest subsequently died and I had left off using the Front line again for fear of a recurrence of the itching/chewing.
I have never had a flea issue since (or before), and so now simply use Vetzyme JDS insecticidal shampoo (smells like Vosene), when I bath the dogs, which seems to be quite sufficient, and I have a Household flea spray that stops the fleas from hatching should fleas get brought home.
The Active ingredient Fipronil is now no longer exclusive to Frontline and last year a range of new products containing it was launched called Effipro and it is quite a bit cheaper.