
Small puppies are incapable of holding and waiting to be let out. Do not expect them to do so. In fact some puppies until around 10-12 weeks are pretty much unaware of the need to go until they are actually going. Generally you can tell if they do or do not know by their actions. Pups that are happily playing then suddenly stop and wee/poo are not aware, pups that stop, go sniff about and find a place to go ARE aware.
The keys to rock solid housetraining are these.
1/know your objective
2/consistency
3/rewarding appropriate behaviours
4/preventing inappropriate behaviours
(this will apply to ALL training really).
1/ Know your objective.
Your objective should be, to have a dog who can hold on whilst you are out, ask to go when you are in, and go on your command when you need them to go (ie before you go to work).
2/Consistency: ALWAYS pay attention to your pup. Let him out after every meal, after every play session and every sleep. And of course, every time he looks like he needs a poo. Even at 3am when its peeing down with rain in the middle of winter and you cant find your slippers.
3/Rewarding appropriate behaviours: Dogs repeat that which they are rewarded for. Which is why you are not recommended to praise and fuss your dog for jumping on you whne he is little -- he will keep doing it when he is bigger because he has found it rewarding.
Reward your pup for going outside and performing. Reward him well and vary it, so he never knows what kinda reward he will get (this pre-empts the 'hmm, pee in rain for a boring biscuit, or pee inside later and keep my paws dry' type scenario)
4/ Do not reward inappropriate behaviours.
If you have taken your dog (and you must TAKE, not just bung outside alone) out for a pee and he would rather play, go back inside. Playing happens AFTER peeing, try again in a few minutes time. Do not reward the playing behaviour.. keep trying until the dog pees, then reward him with play!.
Few more houstraining tips.
Dogs are quite context specific, which is why paper training is often a very slow method. The difference between newspaper and your floor is minimal, the difference between outdoors and in is rather huge. So if you let your pup use the papers, you are effectively teaching him taht going inside is allowed. Changing the rules for anyone is hard but its even harder for a dog. Start as you mean to go on, and prevent toileting indoors completely, reward toiletting outdoors.
Dogs are far far better at learning to 'do' a thing, than learning to 'not do' a thing. Another reason why you are FAR better off rewarding the correct behaviour than you are punishing the wrong one. Its MUCH easier to teach 'you go here and get rewarded' than it is to teach 'you go here, here here, here and here, oh and here and there, and over here and get punished'. Similar to teaching a dog to sit rather than jump up, as opposed to trying to teach a dog not to jump.
Em