
I'm sure that someone far more experienced than me will come on later. But - my experience,,
Pups are not, (or haven't been for me), born several days apart. I usually mate a girl twice, 2 days apart, when it's to an outside stud. When I've used my own boy to a bitch of my own that is compatible, I let them tell me when they're ready, and normally let them mate once a day for 3 days. I have had litters with one smaller than the others, and assumed it was conceived on the 3rd day, but never had a problem with it being particularly weak.
Although emphasis is always made on ensuring the tiny pup gets to the teats, I find that they are normally very strong, and crawl over the rest to nose their way in. I have never been unlucky enough to lose the small one, and it's never been runty, or a bad feeder, so perhaps I've just been lucky.
No the questions aren't silly. And everybody on CD will have different experiences to tell, I'm positive I've read on here that people have had a pup born a day or two after the others, it's just not happened to any of my bitches. I have had a girl tie after I thought she was well finished - and it was at least a week after her supervised mating. No problems with the litter that was born, and I honestly don't think that she conceived from the last sneaky mating. Any swelling had totally gone, and I think she was just being a tart.