
Hi I am probably an expert, from being a Nurse and also have had major back problems since my twenties!
I have had severe arthritis since my late twenties, a Spinal Fusion in 2000 when I was 40 years old, also, just to say in the last 3 years I have had 2 hips replaced and a knee replaced. I am 49 years old...but my body belongs to a 90 year old and I wish she'd have it back 'cos I'm really racked 'orf with it!!
I was working as a Nurse in A&E in 1996, I was attacked by a patient and he prolapsed 2 discs in my back...I had physio, traction, nothing worked, finally had an MRI and needed urgent surgery for a discectomy. I had to finish work and as my back was so arthritic the discs were flattened and hard and calcified...from then on it was all downhill!
Finally in 2000 I had a Spinal Fusion, this has made a major difference...the Op was horrendous, my back was purple from bra staps to my botty! My HB went down to 4.5 and I rejected having a blood transfusion. BUT...I am still glad I went through it and had it done. It isn't great now though, I can't walk very far...but you have to bear in mind that my arthritis is very severe! My pain levels from my back has improved though...so in all, I think it was worth going through.
Now, onto your friend...they should be referred to an Orthopaedic or Neaurosurgical back Consultant. They will try physio as standard, pain relief, maybe steroid injections and a pain clinic referral. They SHOULD do an MRI scan, but sometimes they will try the conservative treatment first. If they MRI shows any sign of severe wear and tear they will consider operating. This route also depends on where exactly the problem stems from. They might do a discectomy, depending on which discs are involved, or further more serious Ops. It's hard to say without a definitive diagnosis and only an MRI can provide that!
If she really is struggling she will need to plea her case to the GP or Consultant, although maybe now-a-days they are more inclined to send for an MRI? In 1996 I had to practically beg for mine...I knew I was in serious trouble but the idiot Consultant at the Hospital(where I worked incidentally!) didn't agree...I was lucky that I had BUPA and asked him if they would pay, could I go for one...he said yes...the Radioligist made an emergency appointment for a Neurosurgeon after the scan and I was in surgery within 48 hours...so much for not needing one eh?
Pain relief...I use a combination of drugs and each person is different and will respond differently to a pain relief regime...if it's severe there is no reason for anyone to deny her a Consultation with the Pain clinic. I also use a TENS machine and found it a life saver at times...you can pick them up for around £30-£40, I bought mine and it was around £80!!
If she wants someone to talk to, pm me and I will give you my e-mail address...it's hard to cover everything in a post and I forget stuff now I'm getting near to 50!!!