> I approached her saying i had a male of the breed and was looking to get a female whom I'd have one litter of puppies from them then that would be it.
> I'm not planning on becoming a back street breeder for goodness sake!
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The thing is breeding just one litter is not a good idea as it has no real purpose, and most good breeders would view such an aim as tantamount to Back Street breeding.
On the face of it it seems a harmless thing to do, but in fact the vast majority of litters are bred by people with not enough knowledge who are breeding just one litter. They lack the experience in homing the pups, lack the depth of experience in the breed to properly support new owners,a nd are also less likely to be able to offer life long support and re-homing service.
It is puppies from such litters that swell the rescue centres, as well as those bred by puppy farmers, but the one off litters according to US statistics where large scale puppy farming is big business, the vast majority of the rescue problem is actually from one off pet litters, and there is no reason to think things are much different in the UK.
The breeding of a litter should be about improving/maintaining the breed and advancing bloodlines in order to safeguard and pass on the breed to the future.
Breeders are more than happy to welcome and Mentor new owners with an interest in becoming seriously involved with their breed, studying bloodlines, working and/or showing their dogs to compare them against the rest of the breed. Basically an apprenticeship.
Many exhibitors never go on to become breeders because of the huge responsibility and commitment.
This is why you will find very little sympathy of this forum for anything appearing to be 'casual breeding'.
I hope you see where people who seem abrasive/unsympathetic are coming from.