
Hi bedruthen, sorry, can't remember what breed your puppy is but I don't imagine it makes much difference when using *
puppy sized brush with lots of tiny metal teeth* on areas like ears, legs, underbelly, tail etc :) It's probably very uncomfortable for her regardless of how gentle you're being.
Do you dampen her coat with a water or grooming spray before brushing? It helps to get through the coat without tugging and breaking the hair.
I always use a brush of nylon and natural bristle mix for sensitive and feathered areas followed by combing through gently afterwards to ensure no tangles result.
Have a treat in one hand which is mostly out of her reach so that she can only lick it through your fingers - when she's suitably engrossed with that brush her gently for only a couple of minutes at a time then give her a break or game. Puppies have a low boredome threshhold so best to groom little and often in a relaxed manner until she is completely accepting of your endeavours.
HTH, regards Teri :)