
Hi Guest,
>Gets a bit scary on here sometimes<
we don't really bite :D At least you're giving us a chance ;)
From what you describe it *could* be signs of a phantom but more obvious signs (apart from physical, such as teats swelling) are when they become possessive with toys, gathering them together and laying with them, behaving as though they are "nesting" such as digging up bedding, contents of the laundry cupboard

or trying to find secluded spots in the house/garden.
Why not join and perhaps you can provide more info - the more you tell us, the more we can tell you.
Regards, Teri :)