
Dont buy an electric drum kit, the budget range ones are ridiculously rubbish for the money you pay.
You wlil be FAR better off (and so will your daughter) if she has a proper kit, the transition from playing a proper kit to an electronic one is easy, but the reverse is NOT and if she DOES carry on, she will have problems.
The resale value on a cheapish electronic kit is nil, whereas wiht £800 to spend on even a second hand kit (spend HALF that on the kit the rest on GOOD cymbals) will be MUCH better should she quit.
For deadening the sound you can buy practice pads made of neoprene type stuff to put over the drumheads, they deaden the sound and also improve sticking technique as the bounce back you get off them is not as strong as off the real skins.
If you want to pm me about drums, and what to buy and what not, feel free.
I play a very old Premier APK kit, bought second hand but STILL worth over £250, not including the cymbals. Do NOT go for the very cheap proper kits, they are rubbish, second hand decent one (but take someone who knows drums with you as if the kit has been gigged heavily it will be knacked) is a much better buy.
New kits, well the ones worth buying, usually c ome as a shell pack, and you b uy the rest of the gear seperately. Buy a decent shell pack, and some cheaper cymbals, or secondn hand decent ones, and you will get a better deal than if you buy a 'beginners kit' with the naff cymbals that come with it (my friend had a Pearl Export kit a while back, that was nearly £500 and came with cymbals, hardware, stool and sticks, but the cymbals and hardware are rubbish).
HTH if you want to give me more specifics i can help more.
Em (drummer and proud, muahahahahaa)