if you send someone a private message is it really private or do admin get to see it? someone sent me a message but i didnt reply to it as it wasnt very nice and i didnt want to encourage that person by replying so i deleted it, now im wondering if i should have saved it? can admin do anything if you get a message like this or not? im not really bothered about it, but i do think its a bit rude especially as i dont know the person who sent me it and they dont know me!