Thank you so much JG .... you are a fantastic mind reader :D ....that too was part of my consideration/worries behind the question (didn't want to droan on)... she isn't showing any signs at all .... and wondered if this was another factor behind waiting :)
We'll just take it each day at a time....see if any signs develop up until that date ....can always cancel it ... but you've put our minds at rest, that even if she doesn't develop signs of a phantom ....we can go ahead.
There are so many things to consider
Jo
:)