
Dear Ceri,
I did not have much time to reply when I saw your message, but I agree with Jo and other folk here, go with your love of flatcoats. You really can't be so unlucky three times in a row. As I said, mine apart from one accidental death have always "made it to old bones", 15+ years and 16+ years . There are some real "old boot" lines out there, it doesn't seem to matter what life throws at them they just go on and on. All breeds have their problems, and quite a few have cancer these days, I think you have just been very unfortunate.
I think people say the silly things they do, as they really do not know what to say or how to say it to you. It's like losing a child, and I have experienced both, I can say that the only reason is, they don't really know what to say to you. They may be able to sympathise but thats about it. It feels awful and it is upsetting, I still wish I had been able to save my dog who died in an accident, and it is 16 years since that happened! I am lucky as I have Trefor and Rosebud to keep me company now. Some how I think it is easier to lose an older dog as you do tend to expect it, where as with a young dog you are devastated, it seems so unfair. I usually have two or three dogs here and I get them with a few years between them, for two reasons, 1. I work my dogs, so I like to have one coming up to retirement, one in full time work and one in training to take over in coming years, 2. I have always got a flatcoat to cuddle!
My friend Sue Clarke had a flatcoat which died from addisons disease, at 14 months, her second one is fine and has just won the ProDogs Silver Life Saver Award for saving her grand-daughter from drowning. Sue was really worried when she heard that the sire of her bitch had died aged eight, but dear Skye is fine, and when she mated Skye she went to a line which we know produces "old boot" material, so she now has Hazelnut as well. Hazelnut is like her sire, definately "old boot". We selected the sire carefully for his long living lines.
Do try again, I am sure you cannot possibly be third time unlucky! If you want to ring or email please do so, I am usually about afternoons and evenings. 01844 299508 foxpath4@yahoo.com