By guest
Date 17.09.03 18:31 UTC
Although I am only a 'guest' I read the messages about the tragic loss of this young woman, wife and mother. I felt compelled to offer my condolences and compassion to her family.
May I suggest that Dean might consider sharing this grief and explaining it simply to his young daughter, otherwise she will obviously be aware of a terrible atmosphere and her distraught father without fully knowing and understanding why, there could then be a possibility that she may consider it is something to do with her! Just be simple, gentle and honest with her. Watch and listen to anything she later says or does that will be her way of trying to express her thoughts or feelings (because she will not know how to ask the questions she needs to).
I have said a prayer for you both, and your dear wife's parents too. I hope and pray you will allow God to help, guide and comfort you - He cannot support you unless you lean on Him.
God Bless you all,
With Kindest thoughts,
Chris.